Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Children. Show all posts
The drama continues today with them all, my son, Ty, and Kay. I have already explained a million times why I thought Ty was lying to my son about being pregnant. What is so hard to understand this. You would think I committed the all mighty sin by assuming she was lying and calling her a liar. My son went to my mother’s house today down there in Bauxite, Arkansas from his dad house. They (being my son, Ty, and Kay) have now brought my mother into this whole ordeal.

What I find amusing is that Kay is trying to manipulate my mother by telling my mother certain things that she knows for a fact are untrue about me and/or Steven. My mother has not told me exactly what things were said, I think it is because I am already pissed and she knows if I blow up it will be bad. All she said is not to worry she knows Kay is nothing but a lying manipulator, and that I am not the one lying or trying to manipulate Steven or anyone. Will this madness/drama ever end??


Steven called me just a little while a go and told me that he was moving in with TyAnne and her mom in Harrison because they were having a baby. I said, what?, and told him I did not think they were having a baby, and what was he talking about? Steven told me that Ty called him and said that she is leaking from her breast and that they were going to have a baby. I asked him when did she tell him this and he told me that she just called and they talked about it. I told him I was not sure what he was talking about, but I took TyAnne to the Health Department last week and they said because she was on a heavy period that she was not pregnant and she was leaking from her breast because she was having to much caffeine. I told him I did not know what games were being played but that TyAnne was either lying to him or just playing around, because I just took her to the Health Department and they said she was NOT pregnant. We hung the phone up and a few minutes or so later the phone rung again and this time it was TyAnne. She asked me if I was sitting down, and I said yeah why? She said because you are going to be a grandmother. I said what, how? She begin to laugh and I could her mother ask what she was laughing about and she told her I said what, how? Her mother then got on the phone with me and said uh what do you mean how? If I have to tell you how then we need to have a talk she said laughing. I laughed then and said I did not mean like that how, I mean I took her last week in and they said she was not pregnant. Kay then informed me that TyAnne had told her that too but she took her back and insisted on a pregnancy test be done, because she had her period for the first few months when she was pregnant with both of her girls, and Ty’s test came back positive. We laughed in stunned shock, and I told Ty congrats. I told them Steven had called me and told me the same thing but I did not believe it and I told him that, and I told them about him telling me he was going to move in with them and that I had told him we would talk about when he got home.

About 30 minutes if that long later the phone rung again, and Steven was pissed at me for telling him she was not pregnant when she was. I told him that I only said that because he did not tell me she had gone back to the doctor and had gotten a pregnancy test done. I was only going off of what I knew. He told me he did not care what I said, that he was moving in with them. This of course pissed me off and I told him NO he was not until we could talk more about when he came home. He asked what more is there to talk about? I told him I was not discussing this over the phone, and he got made at me and hung up on me. I know I should not have raised my voice like that but we all do things in the heat of the moment we later regret.

A little while later the phone rang again and this time it was Kay trying to figure out what was going on. She said that Ty was told by Steven that I had said something to the degree of that Ty was a liar that she was not pregnant, and that was not going to let him move in with Ty or something like this. I am so pissed right now that I might not be remembering word for word what was said. Anyway, I remember telling Kay that is not what I said, I told her that I had told Steven Ty was not pregnant and that I did not know why she would lie about it, but if she told him that she was pregnant then she was either lying or joking around with him because I had taken her to the clinic the week before. I explained to Kay that I said all this without being told that she had went back and had gotten a pregnancy test done since I had taken her. I also told Kay that I had told Steven we would talk about all this and figure things out when he got home, that is when he begin with the threats to me about he was moving out no matter what I said, and that is when I told him NO he was not, not until we talked about it all when he got home. I told her I had no problem with him moving in with them, but it would have to be after he came home a gave me a week or two to get things situated here so he could move out.



Ty had decided to stay with her mom and help out with the packing and moving until Steven comes home. So now David and I have some alone time together. I will be picking Steven up in a couple of weeks.


While Ty has been living with us, her mother or step-father has not offered any financial support to Ty. Ty likes to smoke cigarettes and these do not come cheap. I am the only one right now making an income while my husband is going back to college. So between me and my son we keep him in his chewing tobacco, & we try to keep Ty in cigarettes.

Her prom is coming up next week, and Ty is all excited about her and Steven going to it. We have been talking about hair do’s and dresses. Ty has been talking a lot to her mother about these things too, and since I know it is a mother/daughter thing my husband and I have invited Kay and Kevin (Ty’s step-dad) over that day to spend the day with us getting Ty ready, and having dinner with us. I have already bought Steven his dress pants, shirt, and shoes for the Prom, and he bought himself a tie. I cannot wait to see these two all dressed up for Prom. I will take Steven later this week to buy Ty her corsage.

So when it comes to financial situations we do what we can when it comes to our children no matter their age...or at least David & I do.


My oldest son turned 21 today. It is hard for me to believe that I have a son that old. Many people say I do not look old enough to have a son that old, but I am 36 yrs old. Yes I started young, but I love my children dearly, and this gives me time to see them grow up and to see my grandkids when that day comes.

Happy Birthday Blake...I Love You Son!!


I got up this morning and made my husband and myself some homemade waffles. As we were finishing eating them my husband looks to me and says, lets lick our plates clean. I looked up at him and said "excuse me?" He smiled as he told me that we sometimes get so caught up in life that we forget how to live life, how to live in the moment. That we need to free ourselves and our souls every once in a while from this life we call "BEING ADULTS" and just throw in the towel to all these rules and lick our plates clean. I laughed as I asked him if he was serious? He said "YES" as he picked up his plate and started licking the syrup off his plate. He looked at me over the rim of his plate and asked, "are you not going to join me? Come on honey toss away the rule book for just a few moments and lick your plate clean!" I just laughed as I picked up my plate thinking my husband has gone mental. We sat their laughing while we licked our plates clean. I must admit that it was fun, and I did for just a few moments this morning feel like a kid again and it felt GREAT!! Just one more memory I get to share with him, and with our future grand kids. Even though at the time I thought my husband was crazy, I now see what he was saying. We do get so caught up in "LIFE" that we forget how to live life. I use to be this care free girl, that would not have thought twice about licking her plate if someone suggested it, but after having kids and sitting good examples for them, that care free girls spirit's light had diminished into nothingness. That is until this morning, and now I have a smile on my face that cannot be wiped away, and my care free light has been re-lit. "LIFE" is to precious to just let it just pass you by. You've got to grab "LIFE" by the horns and break it's rules sometimes, so as you get older you never forget how to really LIVE, LAUGH, and LOVE with NO REGRETS!! So break some rule of your LIFE today, the rules that you live by to be a good role model (not the rules made by our legal system...lol), and feel like you are really LIVING LIFE!!