~Passionately Impulsive~

Today  I went and met my ex-husband to pick up my son and his girlfriend, Ty. I was told that there was not much change in my ex's mother's condition. They are bringing her home to take care of here there, he said that whe wanted to go home, and I know it will be better for her and them if she is there. The hospital she is in is so far away.

On my drive down, it was a sunny and beautiful with the hint of Spring just around the corner. I did a lot of soul searching today and talking with God. I had a real nice drive down and a nice drive home with the kids. I am glad to have them back home, but my heart goes out to my son and his father for the loss they know is coming. I still pray a miracle will happen, but if not I can live with the peace of knowing Sue will be in Heaven with her husband where there will be no more pain, sadness or tears again for her...just pure happiness and peace.

Spring break started today for Jasper School. Tomorrow I am meeting Scotie, Steven’s dad, and the kids are going down there to stay until this weekend. Scotie’s mother, Sue, has been diagnosed with cancer and she does not have much time left to live. Steven wants to see her before her time comes and he wants to introduce Ty to them all. I pray that something will come of Sue’s treatments and she will go into remission, but from my understanding there is practically no chance of this happening. My heart goes out to my son and his father and that side of the family. Just 6 months ago they lost their Father, Steven’s grandfather, to cancer.

The other day I took Ty, her mother, and my son to Harrison for Ty to have a MRI of a lump on or under one of Ty’s breast, and let me tell you this trip was a very educational trip. Kay is a very loud person, who has to be the constant center of attention. She is very deceptive, likes to embellish a lot, and has one heck of a mouth on her. She likes to use the GD word a lot and the “ F ” word a lot. I learned about a lot of Kay’s past sexual relationships she had, was told Ty was a “Truck Stop Bathroom Baby“, that Ty’s father and Kay had hooked up in a Truck Stop bathroom and that is how Ty was conceived. I was told about all the partying they liked to do in Tennessee, about how Kay was raped my a police officer in Tennessee, about how Ty once drank Kay under the table at age 16, and about how any time since the age of 14 when Ty would get to cranky/bitchy she knew it was time for Ty to go get laid because it meant it had been to long since she (Ty) had gotten laid. All of this was told to me in my Van on our trip to and from Harrison, Arkansas in front of my 19 year old son Steven. Needless to say I was in shock and at a loss for words at times. I just laughed as if I thought it amusing when in reality I was trying to hold it all together and not go off on her for talking this way in front of me and my son, and not to be physically ill. No wonder Ty has the problems she has being raised like this. Kay is suppose to be a mother not a best friend and a buddy to party with. I have also noticed how controlling Kay is with Ty and others. Everything has to be Kay’s way, and done when Kay says so. I feel so sorry for Ty, but at least she is living with is us now and probably for the first time in years is experiencing what a real normal family life is suppose to be like.

Today is Valentine’s Day, and Steven got Ty a BIG Heart balloon, a card, a stuffed animal, and a pack of cigarettes. David got me a card and a single rose. We had a great Valentine’s Day. The kids seems to really love one another.


David and I got one another cards, and just spent some quality time together. All in all we all had a great day!

My oldest son turned 21 today. It is hard for me to believe that I have a son that old. Many people say I do not look old enough to have a son that old, but I am 36 yrs old. Yes I started young, but I love my children dearly, and this gives me time to see them grow up and to see my grandkids when that day comes.

Happy Birthday Blake...I Love You Son!!

Today Ty is moving into our home with me, my husband, and our son Steven. We had a long talk with my son about this, and then we had a long talk with Ty, and her mother about this. Ty will have her own room here, and my husband and I have expressed our wishes to the kids about not having sex under our roof, but they are adults and all I can do is hope the respect our wishes. We also told Steven and Ty that on school nights they cannot be in each other’s room after 10pm, so Ty can get plenty of rest for school. I have some concerns about letting here live here, I have never even let one of Steven’s girlfriends ever stay the night with us before let alone live with us, but from my understanding it’s not big deal for Ty and her family.

According to Ty her mother has been letting the girls boyfriends stay the night at their house since they were 14 in the girls room. Oh and about the whole still being in school at age 20, I found out that while they lived in Tennessee, Ty did not go to school like she was suppose to and her mother did not make her, even though Kay has told me that she did try to make Ty go to school. Anyway the state intervened and Ty and Kay was taking to court and a long story short, Ty was put into Juvenile Hall for a weekend for her past behavior concerning school, and for her current behavior toward the Judge, once released she was on probation, and Ty was monitored and made sure she was attending school. However, her previously not attending school put her back a year or two causing her to be 20 years old when she graduates.

My son Steven Wells started dating this new girl named TyAnne that he has been going on about for weeks. We met her today and she is a pretty young lady who is 20 yrs old, and moved here to Newton County with her mother, step-dad, and her half sister last year from Clarksville, Tennessee. TyAnne is still in high school, but is a Senior at Jasper High School. Not sure why she is still in school at age 20, but I am sure we will find out more about this later on as their relationship grows.

TyAnne told us that she is living with our neighbor Cindy Shat because TyAnne’s counselor thinks she needs to move out of her mother’s home and become more independent, not sure why but I am sure we will find out more about this later on too.