Scotie called me last night wanting to know if I could met him Sunday so that he could get Steven and bring him to the hospital where Sue was at. The doctors had called the family and told them to get everyone there ASAP, because they did not think Sue would make it long. So I met Scotie this morning, and I just got the phone call that Steven made there just in time, they arrived at the Hospital at 1pm and Sue died at 2pm. Ty did not go on this trip, Scotie just wanted it to be family. He knew that if his mother did die, that in a few days after he death the will would be read and that his brother would go off the deep end at that point and Scotie is a private person and he did not want others to see this. Kay took offense to this, she told me on the phone that if Ty was going to be family then she would see things like this in the future. Ty was already family to us, but Scotie had not had time to bond with Ty like we have and he knew that what would happen would embarrass him to begin with and he did not want that embarrassment to be worse by having Ty there to witness all this. Kay just could not understand any of this and stated to me that Scotie needed to just “get over it”, that Ty had every right to be there to support Steven. I just left it by saying that I did not have a say so in this matter that was Scotie‘s department.


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