~Passionately Impulsive~

Today  I went and met my ex-husband to pick up my son and his girlfriend, Ty. I was told that there was not much change in my ex's mother's condition. They are bringing her home to take care of here there, he said that whe wanted to go home, and I know it will be better for her and them if she is there. The hospital she is in is so far away.

On my drive down, it was a sunny and beautiful with the hint of Spring just around the corner. I did a lot of soul searching today and talking with God. I had a real nice drive down and a nice drive home with the kids. I am glad to have them back home, but my heart goes out to my son and his father for the loss they know is coming. I still pray a miracle will happen, but if not I can live with the peace of knowing Sue will be in Heaven with her husband where there will be no more pain, sadness or tears again for her...just pure happiness and peace.

Spring break started today for Jasper School. Tomorrow I am meeting Scotie, Steven’s dad, and the kids are going down there to stay until this weekend. Scotie’s mother, Sue, has been diagnosed with cancer and she does not have much time left to live. Steven wants to see her before her time comes and he wants to introduce Ty to them all. I pray that something will come of Sue’s treatments and she will go into remission, but from my understanding there is practically no chance of this happening. My heart goes out to my son and his father and that side of the family. Just 6 months ago they lost their Father, Steven’s grandfather, to cancer.

The other day I took Ty, her mother, and my son to Harrison for Ty to have a MRI of a lump on or under one of Ty’s breast, and let me tell you this trip was a very educational trip. Kay is a very loud person, who has to be the constant center of attention. She is very deceptive, likes to embellish a lot, and has one heck of a mouth on her. She likes to use the GD word a lot and the “ F ” word a lot. I learned about a lot of Kay’s past sexual relationships she had, was told Ty was a “Truck Stop Bathroom Baby“, that Ty’s father and Kay had hooked up in a Truck Stop bathroom and that is how Ty was conceived. I was told about all the partying they liked to do in Tennessee, about how Kay was raped my a police officer in Tennessee, about how Ty once drank Kay under the table at age 16, and about how any time since the age of 14 when Ty would get to cranky/bitchy she knew it was time for Ty to go get laid because it meant it had been to long since she (Ty) had gotten laid. All of this was told to me in my Van on our trip to and from Harrison, Arkansas in front of my 19 year old son Steven. Needless to say I was in shock and at a loss for words at times. I just laughed as if I thought it amusing when in reality I was trying to hold it all together and not go off on her for talking this way in front of me and my son, and not to be physically ill. No wonder Ty has the problems she has being raised like this. Kay is suppose to be a mother not a best friend and a buddy to party with. I have also noticed how controlling Kay is with Ty and others. Everything has to be Kay’s way, and done when Kay says so. I feel so sorry for Ty, but at least she is living with is us now and probably for the first time in years is experiencing what a real normal family life is suppose to be like.