I have talked to Steven everyday and I have asked him to ask Kay where do I take his documents too so he can be added to her HUD application, but as of yet they still have not given me an answer.


Steven brought the truck home and we, my husband and I, took him and Ty back over to TyAnne’s house. We got to see where they lived. The house is cute on the outside, but the inside and the yard has a long way to go before I would live in it.


Steven’s drive shaft broke on his truck today while they were moving his stuff from our home to the house in Harrison. My husband and I went up to Piercetown where he broke down at and a neighbor stopped by to help out and they took off his drive shaft. The neighbor whom is also a mechanic told my son to keep his hubs locked in on his 4 wheel drive and he would be able to drive the truck until it got fixed, but he would need to always use his emergency break, and scotch the tires with something. So they went on to Harrison with his things.

I told Steven to bring his Truck back to the house tomorrow to park here so it can be worked on and get fixed. I told him I would give him a ride back to Harrison to their house. So he is suppose to have it here by 2pm.


Well I just got done talking with the kids, and I have agreed to let Steven move in with TyAnne and her mom in their Harrison home. He is only going to take his bed, clothes, meds, and other personal stuff, but he is leaving everything else here for now. They are going to try to get their own place after Steven finds a job, so I told them there is no need for him to move all his stuff twice. They agreed to this. Kay needs Steven birth certificate and social security number so he can be added to her HUD application. I told TyAnne and Steven to tell Kay to tell me where to take this information too and I will give it to the HUD office for her. I am not about to give this information to anyone, my husband has been a victim of identity theft, and I would not give it to Kay any way. Not after TyAnne telling me that her mom has gotten a credit card in TyAnne’s name before and they were unable to pay it off after maxing it out.



Steven got up this morning and went right over to TyAnne’s moms house in Mt Sherman. He is going to stay the night at Ty’s moms house there in Mt Sherman tonight, but come home sometime Sunday afternoon with Ty. He still seems to be upset that Ty is moving in with her mom in Harrison now instead of in August when originally planned. They are suppose to talk out things and then talk to me tomorrow about them.


Things finally kind of/sort of calmed down and I went this evening and picked up Steven. TyAnne is still at her mom’s house out at Mt Sherman, and he will go out there tomorrow morning and help them finish up moving into their house in Harrison. He is on pins and needles wanting to see TyAnne. But it is sooo late and he will just have to wait. Right now he is talking to her on the phone.



The drama continues today with them all, my son, Ty, and Kay. I have already explained a million times why I thought Ty was lying to my son about being pregnant. What is so hard to understand this. You would think I committed the all mighty sin by assuming she was lying and calling her a liar. My son went to my mother’s house today down there in Bauxite, Arkansas from his dad house. They (being my son, Ty, and Kay) have now brought my mother into this whole ordeal.

What I find amusing is that Kay is trying to manipulate my mother by telling my mother certain things that she knows for a fact are untrue about me and/or Steven. My mother has not told me exactly what things were said, I think it is because I am already pissed and she knows if I blow up it will be bad. All she said is not to worry she knows Kay is nothing but a lying manipulator, and that I am not the one lying or trying to manipulate Steven or anyone. Will this madness/drama ever end??


Steven called me just a little while a go and told me that he was moving in with TyAnne and her mom in Harrison because they were having a baby. I said, what?, and told him I did not think they were having a baby, and what was he talking about? Steven told me that Ty called him and said that she is leaking from her breast and that they were going to have a baby. I asked him when did she tell him this and he told me that she just called and they talked about it. I told him I was not sure what he was talking about, but I took TyAnne to the Health Department last week and they said because she was on a heavy period that she was not pregnant and she was leaking from her breast because she was having to much caffeine. I told him I did not know what games were being played but that TyAnne was either lying to him or just playing around, because I just took her to the Health Department and they said she was NOT pregnant. We hung the phone up and a few minutes or so later the phone rung again and this time it was TyAnne. She asked me if I was sitting down, and I said yeah why? She said because you are going to be a grandmother. I said what, how? She begin to laugh and I could her mother ask what she was laughing about and she told her I said what, how? Her mother then got on the phone with me and said uh what do you mean how? If I have to tell you how then we need to have a talk she said laughing. I laughed then and said I did not mean like that how, I mean I took her last week in and they said she was not pregnant. Kay then informed me that TyAnne had told her that too but she took her back and insisted on a pregnancy test be done, because she had her period for the first few months when she was pregnant with both of her girls, and Ty’s test came back positive. We laughed in stunned shock, and I told Ty congrats. I told them Steven had called me and told me the same thing but I did not believe it and I told him that, and I told them about him telling me he was going to move in with them and that I had told him we would talk about when he got home.

About 30 minutes if that long later the phone rung again, and Steven was pissed at me for telling him she was not pregnant when she was. I told him that I only said that because he did not tell me she had gone back to the doctor and had gotten a pregnancy test done. I was only going off of what I knew. He told me he did not care what I said, that he was moving in with them. This of course pissed me off and I told him NO he was not until we could talk more about when he came home. He asked what more is there to talk about? I told him I was not discussing this over the phone, and he got made at me and hung up on me. I know I should not have raised my voice like that but we all do things in the heat of the moment we later regret.

A little while later the phone rang again and this time it was Kay trying to figure out what was going on. She said that Ty was told by Steven that I had said something to the degree of that Ty was a liar that she was not pregnant, and that was not going to let him move in with Ty or something like this. I am so pissed right now that I might not be remembering word for word what was said. Anyway, I remember telling Kay that is not what I said, I told her that I had told Steven Ty was not pregnant and that I did not know why she would lie about it, but if she told him that she was pregnant then she was either lying or joking around with him because I had taken her to the clinic the week before. I explained to Kay that I said all this without being told that she had went back and had gotten a pregnancy test done since I had taken her. I also told Kay that I had told Steven we would talk about all this and figure things out when he got home, that is when he begin with the threats to me about he was moving out no matter what I said, and that is when I told him NO he was not, not until we talked about it all when he got home. I told her I had no problem with him moving in with them, but it would have to be after he came home a gave me a week or two to get things situated here so he could move out.



Ty had decided to stay with her mom and help out with the packing and moving until Steven comes home. So now David and I have some alone time together. I will be picking Steven up in a couple of weeks.


Steven is going to stay a week or so with his dad, he told me that his dad needed him and he did not want to leave him after they bury his grandma today, but he also said he wanted to come home too so he could be with TyAnne he misses her.

David and I decided we were going to go and float the river today, we have not done this since we moved here in 2006. Therefore we wanted to float the river just the two of us, so I made arrangements for Ty to stay the day with her mother. However, before we went I had to take Ty to the Health Department on the way to have her breast checked out. She said she was like leaking small fluid from her breast, I asked her if she thought she was pregnant, but she informed me that she was currently on her period. I told her I have known of cases that some women still have their period the first month or two of their pregnancy. Anyway I dropped her off, and when I came back to pick her up she told me that they told her she was not pregnant because she was having a heavy period, and that the leaking of fluid from her breast was due to her having too much caffeine. So I bought her some decaffeinated tea for the house. On the way to her mother’s house to drop her off she asked me not to say anything to her mother about this. I told her I would never tell her mother anything unless you told me first it was OK to tell her or talk to her mother about things. She is 20 years old, she is an adult so I am not doing noting wrong by keeping my mouth shut.

David and I had a great canoe trip, and afterwards we picked up Ty from her mothers and we went home. Ty told me she was going to go stay over at her mother house this weekend, because her mom and them had finally found a home in Harrison, and they would soon be moving and she needed to help them pack. Her step-dad and gotten his record all cleared up and he was back out on the road trucking.


Scotie called me last night wanting to know if I could met him Sunday so that he could get Steven and bring him to the hospital where Sue was at. The doctors had called the family and told them to get everyone there ASAP, because they did not think Sue would make it long. So I met Scotie this morning, and I just got the phone call that Steven made there just in time, they arrived at the Hospital at 1pm and Sue died at 2pm. Ty did not go on this trip, Scotie just wanted it to be family. He knew that if his mother did die, that in a few days after he death the will would be read and that his brother would go off the deep end at that point and Scotie is a private person and he did not want others to see this. Kay took offense to this, she told me on the phone that if Ty was going to be family then she would see things like this in the future. Ty was already family to us, but Scotie had not had time to bond with Ty like we have and he knew that what would happen would embarrass him to begin with and he did not want that embarrassment to be worse by having Ty there to witness all this. Kay just could not understand any of this and stated to me that Scotie needed to just “get over it”, that Ty had every right to be there to support Steven. I just left it by saying that I did not have a say so in this matter that was Scotie‘s department.